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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I was being portrayed as some sort of crazy stalker who pounced on a married man, yep, I would set the record straight.  Everyone is going to be sympathetic to the wife who was cheated on but that does not mean that *I* deserve scorn or ill will towards *ME*.  Plus, she really should know that her husband is duping unsuspecting women like that.[/quote]

You care what a complete stranger thinks about you. You know the wife is a complete stranger, you don't know her at all.

Would you walk up to a complete stranger on the street and tell them your story?

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If I got the sense that she was bad mouthing me  and making my name mud in her circle of lady friends.  You bet I would try to talk to her because obviously she is not some random stranger, she is the wronged wife who is pissed off specifically at *ME*.  And I would not deserve that kind of animosity directed at me.  She would deserve to know exactly what her husband did - I'm not talking about bedroom specifics, I am talking about the way he manipulated/duped an innocent woman into being the other woman.  I would also want her to know that I was very, very sorry and would never have willingly participated in a deception like that.  Maybe it would make her feel better that she was not the only one who was hurt by this man.  I don't know.[/quote]

You sound smart. I already posted that I was duped into a relationship with a married man who swore he was "in the process of getting a divorce." I took the high road -- that is, I said nothing. Both he and his DW talked about me relentlessly, saying I had pursued him (I had not) etc. I suspect it was the only thing that held their marriage together. If I had to do it over, I would speak up ASAP and tell my side of the story. People believe whatever they hear. Speak up.[/quote]

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