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Reply to "Is the redhead kid who calls me dad actually mine?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is so gross that you're using a child as a tool to work out your marital problem. I guarantee you that if the kid isn't OP's, a year from now OP won't have anything to do with him anymore.[/quote] Whatever pain the child suffers, in this kind of situation, is the fault of the cheating mother. The duped husband's unwillingness to raise a child not his own is an entirely foreseeable and predictable outcome of her conduct, and it was her choice to create that situation. I don't think women have any perspective on how much of a violation this is to men and should not be so quick to judge. [/quote] OP has sat on his suspicions for years because he wasn't ready to face them, and allowed this child to bond to him and believe him to be his father. He absolutely bears responsibility for the child's pain if he pulls the rug out from under him after all this time.[/quote]
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