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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am so angry I don't even know what to do.  This "woman" I have been seeing for thee past 3 months is actually a man. The only reason I found out is when we were about to get to "2nd base" this evening and he (she?) told me right before we got started (most likely because he had a dick). I blew up on him and almost slugged him, but I have too much to lose professionally for legal issues. He doesnt understand why I am so upset and said that he's a woman just like every other woman and I should respect that. He really does look like a woman, doesn't have a pronounced atoms apple, sounds feminine, and he has real looking breasts. I don't know if he's had surgery. I understand his point and I'm not against transgenders but I certainly don't want to be with one. I never thought I'd feel this way but actually I feel violated. It's really a total mind fuck right now. Does anyone know I have have any legal options- there are lots of lawyers on here right? What the hell do people do in this situation? I feel like posting his picture and putting it in all the bars so no one goes through this. I just needed to vent. I do not feel ready to talk to my friends about this yet.

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[b]I think you meant to say you've been dating a transgender woman. The lingo is tricky but you'll get reamed to hell and back if you use it incorrectly.[/b]

Also I think that is something that needs to be told up front on a first date. She was in the wrong here, not you. I'm so sorry that you feel violated. Vent away, that was really shitty and irresponsible of her to do. [/quote]

Frack that shit. It was a man who wants to be a woman. I'm sorry OP, I would have biitch slapped that person, and claimed self defense. You were mind fucked by the way. And PP, why is the PC pronoun usage more important than the person who was actually violated through fraudulent representation?[/quote]

I pointed out the correct PC lingo to the OP so that he wouldn't get even more shit than he was already getting from the assholes who think its fine for a man to be violated and lied to.[/quote]

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