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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lol at the people who think this is a disappointing date or equivalent of a guy not telling a woman he is married. Thanks for the glimpse into the thought processes of the female mind[/quote]

There's all kinds of reasons a person might feel "violated" - they by and large do not entitle a person to sue the other party. That's just not how life is.

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OP is venting. He hasnt called a lawyer. Jesus christ[/quote]

The OP even calmed down and felt compassion and concern for his date. He was worried she might do this again to someone who might actually assault her. Read the thread before jumping to judgement people.[/quote]

Yes. The OP seems to have his head and heart in the right place, despite feeling very disrespectfully "fooled" or kept in the dark about a Pretty Big Thing in a relationship.  I can certainly imagine that someone who feels and "is" a woman, would want to pursue relationships this way.  On the other hand, of course someone she wants to relate to on an intimate level should be in on the situation so both parties come to it fully informed and voluntarily.  OP, you get it, and I'm proud of you for that despite feeling incredibly angry (and maybe also ashamed, foolish? reviving memories of past abuse?)--I completely sympathize with your point of view.  I would also feel duped and pissed as hell.  At first.

You're a good person.  Coast on that knowledge for a bit. :)[/quote]

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