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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, do you think you really like this girl? After 4 dates, do you have a gut feeling about her? Does she make you giddy, or just hopeful for more groping-plus? The more you find yourself falling for someone, the more you're likely to do stupid/awesome stuff like text, call, wear your heart on your sleeve. And the giddier she is, the more likely she is to be receptive to it. There's really nothing to lose, imo, except for "face." [/quote]

I "think" OP is asking more from a point of understanding the dating game rather than the girl herself.  Not sure if he wants to chime in on this one.  If your not really into the girl then move on at this point.  It cost you some money but hey at least you learned something from it though right?[/quote]

There's no game-just a bunch of individuals fumbling through life.

Maybe she got freaked out by a guy who clearly wanted an instant response to any text (this would be a dealbreaker for me).
Maybe she was also in the early stages of dating another guy and she liked him better.
Maybe she thought he would like her even more if she played a little harder to get.
Maybe she met the love of her life this weekend.

If you don't know why a date is acting in a certain way-you either decide that it's not worth the trouble to find out why and you move on, or you ask (if it's someone you are into, I'd suggest this latter approach).[/quote]

I agree with you except for the part about playing harder to get. That IS a game.[/quote]

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