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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, maybe she has a lot of stuff going on at work right now? What is she saying in her replies? I would think if she was no longer interested, she just wouldn't reply at all. [/quote]

NP - even if she were all that busy, if she was interested she would have made an effort.  stop being an apologist and just accept that she was acting a bit shitty.[/quote]

Whoa...apologist? No.. I was just reminded of something my dh told me. He said before we met, girls would blow up his phone at work while he was busy and get upset he didnt reply right away. Op hadn't provided details of WHAT was said yet so I thought perhaps this was a similar situation and asked what the texts were. Chill out.[/quote]

+1. It could have been that the earlier, prompter text replies were about logistics and planning, and these later ones chatting about an article seem less urgent to someone busy at work and getting ready for a weekend away. But on the other hand if the discussion about the article isn't too lively, that could show that the compatibility and chemistry really aren't there, so the OP could be justified in letting things go for that reason.[/quote]

It was more than just the text reply, it was the change in demeanor on the last date towards the end.  Its a culmination of everything.  Obviously I was getting a cold shoulder with slow uninterested responses.  Plus there were some red flags.  She doesn't like watching any TV/movies which I'm not a huge movie guy anymore I do watch a show or two here and there.  She did not like chivalry from guys such as opening doors for her or I insisted I pay for everything on our dates.  (I know the guy paying for everything can be a sensitive topic for some women)[/quote]

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