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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]In a lot of cases, the husband would be cheating with someone. It's not like one woman declining his offer is going to change his mind.[/b]

Sleeping with someone else's husband isn't something I thought I'd ever do. Once the line was crossed, I realized it's not as bad as I thought. We have amazing sex and a friendship, but that's about it. We don't want to marry each other. We don't want to cause any trouble in the other one's life. We get together a few times per year and have sex.

I'm certain it would be someone else if it wasn't me. We both understand what we have, and what we don't have. The risk is very low and the sex is off the charts. [/quote]

That's an astonishingly cowardly comment. You could apply this twisted logic to all sorts of things. "Gee, if I'm not to one who (insert any shitty action here) then someone else will, so what's the difference?"

The difference is you can choose not to do shitty things. If you choose the low road then at least accept who you are without the lame rationalizations.[/quote]

At this point, it's a victimless crime. We are both very careful. The odds of him getting caught are slim with me. The only way his wife would find out is if he told her. I'd feel guilty if it affected his family, but I think we've found the balance that makes that almost impossible. It works for us. [/quote]

OP, why did you post this question on here?  At every turn, you've defended your actions, made up your mind that you did nothing wrong. So, what was the point of this post?

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She's bragging (in a passive aggressive way).  She wants to brag in real life but knows she can't.  She wants validation that this affair is "real" and this confessional is her only outlet.  It's pathetic, really.[/quote]

What's there to brag about? Middle-aged single woman having an affair with a Grandpa-aged guy who will never leave his wife?[/quote]

She's bragging because she's showing US! that she is banging a MARRIED DUDE, all you clueless pathetic married ladies![/quote]

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