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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While I'm sure that all of you spankers are 100% in control of your emotions and use other discipline methods in your home, that has not been true of the vast majority of people I have personally observed punishing their children by striking them. What I have seen, in public and a

mong the people I grew up around, ranged between frustrated parents with few parenting skills hitting a child on the hand, head or bottom because the child was whining/crying/not listening/other infraction unrelated to safety and parents saying things like "When we get home, you'll choose a belt" to children who had committed more serious infractions. In all cases, the public spanking or public threat of private spanking was not immediately followed by the family leaving the public situation. Mostly they just stick around at the BBQ or wherever and the child's behavior does not actually change.

So while I suppose I can understand what you guys are saying about calm, rational spanks and only doing it in very serious circumstances, that has not been my observation of how this technique is used.[/quote]

Where do you live that you see all these people spanking their kids? [b] Your story sounds incredulous to me.[/b][/quote]

It doesn't to me. It sounds like Ruralsville, where I lived for a few years. It doesn't sound like here, I agree. [/quote]

Incredulous describes someone who is unwilling or unable to believe something; skeptical. So the PP who said "Your story sounds incredulous" is actually the one who is incredulous.

More appropriate word choices: unbelievable, dubious, improbable, unlikely, incredible.[/quote]

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