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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like reverse segregation.[/quote]

Says the person that doesn't know the definition of segregation. [/quote]

If Whites are excluded, that's segregation.[/quote]

I am in both Mocha Moms and Jack and Jill.  Whites are NOT excluded. We have white moms in both groups and there are some in executive positions (in J&J).  We hang out, travel together and get along.  I think that some of the people who are posting about the criteria to get into J&J are not really in it because what they are saying is not accurate.  In order to be part of J&J you must be invited and sponsored by an existing member and once you are sponsored, the existing members have to vote you in.  With Mocha Moms, it is just an application and a fee of $50.00 (at least for the Silver Spring Chapter).  Mocha Moms is VERY down to earth and can be a little granola but they are good friendly people and they hold lots of fun non-pretentious events.

[b]For people who have negative things to say about J&J, the bottom line is everything is not for everybody.  Unless or until someone invites you to be a member of J&J, don't worry about it because you really are not in a position to consider whether you would be a part of it or not.  That said, the organization offers wonderful opportunities for kids of color who are from upper middle class to wealthy backgrounds.  These kids usually live in far flung suburbs and are the only or one of few kids of color in their schools.  J&J gives them an opportunity to interact and socialize with kids with similar backgrounds so that they do not feel so isolated and disconnected.  Unless you are a parent of a black child in this type of situation, you will not understand.  For those who cannot afford to be in J&J, nothing stops them from forming their own groups or organizations or getting some friends together and do some of the same activities on their own. [/b] [/quote]
I have no problem with J&J, have lots of friends who belong to various chapters around the country, but your comments in bold do absolutely nothing to dispel the stereotype of elitism. Just Wow! No way I would anyone, 'well if you cannot afford it, then make  up your own organization. Really Nice lady![/quote]

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