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My wife feels spent and uninterested in sex even when I do all those things. One of the things is that sex is simply not a priority for her. She's not malicious or trying to hurt my feelings or anything. It just doesn't occur to her unless I bring it up. And, because it's not a priority, if I take the load off by taking care of a lot of the necessities, it's her nature to increase her load by taking on a bunch of discretionary activities. So, I could kill myself with effort, and it wouldn't result in so much free time for her that she felt relaxed and horny. So, I respect your situation, but I think there are more than a few guys who feel like their wife can't be relied upon to make sex a priority no matter how much effort they put into what their wives see as priorities. [/quote]

What are the discretionary activities? I can't believe you even refer to something in this way. Are you trying to make your wife OWE you sex because you did some chores? 
Think of it from her point of view: she doesn't have sex before taking care of her responsibilities. she would rather do a hobby activity than have sex with you.
I feel sorry for her. Do you care about your wife as a person at all? What are the discretionary activities in your mind? Do you realize that sex is an instinctual act? You are clearly not inspiring her. Thank you for doing some chores. [/quote]

I don't get horny because I have too much shit to do. 
Oh, cool, let me help with that. There now you have less to do. Let's have sex. 
How dare you get in the way of my hobbies! You have to inspire me!

WTF?[/quote]

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