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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So what you feminists are saying is that you can decide you don't want to have sex with your husbands, but when your husbands then look for sex elsewhere, be it an affair or an escort, you don't understand why he would do that?

I'm curious to know why you feel it's ok not to engage in sexual relations with a man you are married to and not expect any repercussions. I'm not talking about physical limitations, just "I don't wanna". What makes women so special (and before you start in I AM a woman) that they feel they can behave like this?

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I predict crickets on this one, but what the hell do I know.[/quote]

I'll get attacked. Guaranteed.

I really want to know why any woman feels that her feelings and needs are more important than her husbands. Vaginas don't give you special privileges. You don't get to reject people because you have one.[/quote]
You do, actually.  You get to decide what goes into your vagina.  You, and no one else. Your vagina is your undivided kingdom. And so is your husband's dick. He gets to decide where to put it. If he doesn't want to put it in you, he won't. Yes, he gets to reject people he doesn't want. [/quote]

And if you aren't letting him put it in you as often as he'd like, he has the power to go and do something else with it.[/quote]
Of course he does, he is his own person.  He has the power to do that even if I let him put it in me as often as he'd like.   I can't force him to put it in me. [/quote]

Here's the thing, I do agree that it is reasonable for a man to expect to have sexual relations with his wife on an ongoing basis.  We all know that it doesn't always happen -- for quite a variety of reasons.  I understand that many men seek sexual satisfactions elsewhere.  While I don't agree with it on moral grounds, I get that it happens.  What really makes me angry though, is that many of these men (especially the ones seeing prostitutes) do not inform their spouse of their activities.  Obviously, they don't tell their wives because they fear the repercussions of doing so.  That is a cowardly move.

My ex cheated on me with prostitutes while he swore that he was faithful to me.  He and I were not having much sex and it wasn't because I was saying no.  He endangered my already fragile health with his sexual activities.  He claimed that he did it to "save our marriage."  Again, that is a cowardly move.  If you are doing something outside of the marriage, you should give me the opportunity to decide whether I want to save our marriage.  I put up with all sorts of shit on his behalf, but the cheating was the last straw.

Bottom line, you have a right to put your dick where you want ---but you DON"T have a right to stick it in me afterwards without telling me where it has been.[/quote]

I'm so sorry PP.  This is awful.  I have to say, I do disagree with your assertion that wives have to provide their partners with sex on an ongoing basis.  The fact is, no one owes anyone else sex. If your partner is uninterested in sleeping with you, it's time to reconsider how you are treated them and the dynamics of your relationship.

[/quote]Wow.   A woman who has mastered the art of using sex as a weapon.  [/quote]

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