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[quote=Anonymous]I understand diassapointment, I honestly do.
And I also get that crap happens and your sister made a mistake. What I don't get is folks thinking the world revolves around their wedding. I try do not get this. I also do not understand how missing one family event equates to poor family values and a lifetime of not valuing family. This is one occassion, one event. I was almost 40 when I married and there were people I loved, who could not make it to my wedding. I had LIFELONG live for and from these people, trusted these people and understood that my wedding did not all if a sudden give me permission to question their circumstances or motives. Life is not a straight line, it's not always your way or the highway. OP, their will be times in your married life when you will Make decisions based on what is best for your immediate family. People in your broader family may not understand or may not get it, but hopefully they will trust you enough to know that despite what you do you still love,care for, and  want to participate in your family.
Hopefully they will not judge you and find you lacking. [/quote]

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