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Actually I can't. It just amuses me when men get their panties in a wad and so selfish about their wives gaining weight, as if it was a personal slap in the face to them!  So hilariously self centered!

And I'm guessing you are an Adonis yourself? Dead ringer for David Gandy? [/quote]

But it very much IS a personal slap in the face!
While dating, I was quite selective about dating only girls who matched my active lifestyle. At that time, my wife (then girlfriend) shared the same views on fitness. I made no secrets about my commitment to physical activity for life, and that I wanted a partner to grow old with BUT to remain active.

Whether I'm Adonis or David Gandy (whoever the F that might be, don't care enough to even google) is totally irrelevant. What IS relevant is that [b]I've not changed[/b], physically, since we got together 2 decades ago.
Have I aged? Of course! But getting fat and lazy is NOT a part of aging. I work a bit harder now to maintain my strength and weight, but [b]that's what mature people do if they value physical fitness[/b].

Obviously my wife now values her cushy lifestyle with ease and comfort over fitness. And I'm not happy about that change one bit. I've never been attracted to larger women. And now that my wife has gained a ton of weight, I've lost attraction and respect for her.
Yes, that's a slap in my face.

It just amuses me when women get surprised and upset that their men lose attraction for a wife who gains weight.

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LOL.  So ridiculous and inane.

First of all, it is a proven FACT that women have a physically harder time losing weight and keeping it off.  If you dont believe me, feel free to work up the energy to use google (Um, talk about lazy... google "David Gandy" if you want to see what a real hot guy looks like and how poorly you measure up) and verify that for yourself.

Like others have said, sounds like you are busy working out at the gym, and I wonder how much you are contributing to the household.  If you spend your time at the gym, and do nothing around the house, and your wife has to pick up the slack... newsflash! Of course she's going to be too busy to go to the gym.

I also wonder how supportive you are to her emotionally, given how much resentment you clearly have towards her.  You speak of her so hatefully.  If you are able to be AT ALL kind and nice to her then you must be a master liar.  I would be really surprised if your wife isn't able to pick up on your attitude.

It amuses me when men think they can bully women into doing things. It shows such a complete and total lack of understanding of human psychology. [/quote]

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