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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it's not about your attractions anymore, it is about kids. And there are different parenting philosophies but most people agree that it is best for kids to be with mom in their early years IF mom is happy to stay at home. I think your wife is, however tired she may seem. 
So, she does crafts with kids instead of cooking YOU dinner? The horror! Again, it's not about you. 
Be an adult, just cook the darn dinner or bring takeout, and yes, do that deep cleaning on a weekend! Just trust me, being with kids all day is an important and hard JOB. Lots of people choose to go to work, nothing wrong with that, but please please give your wife an opportunity to do her job if this is what she chooses. You don't have to understand, just appreciate. 
You don't realize how much she takes off your shoulders. Do you want to stay home with sick kids? do you want to do pickups, dropoffs, rain or shine? do you want to take them to doctors appointments? doesn't seem like it from your post. So please, just leave her alone. [/quote]

Do people not understand what being a SAHP is?? Where did all these women come from that had no idea what a literal 24/7 job (with NO sick days and rare breaks) it is to stay home and take care of their kids? How did it come as a surprise...did you all really think it was going to be arts and crafts and nap time?

And then you complain about equal treatment, when knows that if it was a man who shirked 50% of what he was supposed to do, no one would be saying how his wife needs to suck it up and listen to his feelings about it and understand his side. They'd be calling him a worthless POS who she needs to divorce ASAP.

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