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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it's not about your attractions anymore, it is about kids. And there are different parenting philosophies but most people agree that it is best for kids to be with mom in their early years IF mom is happy to stay at home. I think your wife is, however tired she may seem. 
So, she does crafts with kids instead of cooking YOU dinner? The horror! Again, it's not about you. 
Be an adult, just cook the darn dinner or bring takeout, and yes, do that deep cleaning on a weekend! Just trust me, being with kids all day is an important and hard JOB. Lots of people choose to go to work, nothing wrong with that, but please please give your wife an opportunity to do her job if this is what she chooses. You don't have to understand, just appreciate. 
You don't realize how much she takes off your shoulders. [b]Do you want to stay home with sick kids?[/b] do you want to do pickups, dropoffs, rain or shine? do you want to take them to doctors appointments? doesn't seem like it from your post. So please, just leave her alone. [/quote]

This is one of mine and my H greatest pleasures... cuddles and movies all day. Since when is being there for your child a "burden taken off of their shoulders". Who are these men that don't get pleasure in doctor appointments/drop offs/pickups... playing in the rain or shine. [/quote]

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