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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that first date, cherish her stuff is mostly wishful thinking. My guess is that it comes from women who either: a) are already sexually interested in their men and having him pay that kind of attention would send them into overdrive; or b) are not sexually interested and think that maybe, possibly, that kind of attention would work on them.

Are we hearing the first date stuff from women who were sexually disinterested with their husbands for long periods of time, got the first date treatment and are now eager to have sex 3-4x per week? I have my doubts.

In my case, the experience of my first dates was mostly me drinking at the bar with my buddies and her tracking me down, us hanging out a little bit and then stumbling back to my place to have great sex. I'd be happy to go out drinking with my buddies until she tracked me down for sex. But, somehow, I don't see that working either. [/quote]

Me. Mine wasn't quite the first date treatment but close...I had surgery and husband was super accommodative...helped me around, cooked dinner for me, brought me flowers etc. It really did help rekindle things because I knew he wasn't just acting that way to get laid... I wasn't physically able to have sex for a few weeks after the surgery. Things are much better now. Seriously, 3-5 times a week. At our worst it was once a month if that.[/quote]

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