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What pray tell is that one responsibility?  Is it cleaning and housework? Laundry?  Cooking and packing lunches?  Is it changing diapers?  Driving Kids every where and going to all conferences/appointments?  Is it taking care of all the finances?  Is it taking care of a elderly sick parent?  Is it homework help?  Not all families have a dad who can help with these tasks, most high earners have super long hours and/or lots of overnight travel.

I have far more time for mental breaks and far more adult companionship when working outside the home.
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I never understand these lists. I WOHM and do all of these things. Granted, I don't do them during the hours I am working, but they all still need to get done, meaning either my schedule has to shift around or I have to do them at night and on the weekend. [/quote]

Or like many, you outsource some of these things -- at least the childcare as someone is watching your child when you are working.  [/quote]

Agreed: "Granted, I don't do them during the hours I am working." My point was, I never understand why SAHMs use examples like "laundry" and "grocery shopping" and "cooking" and "taking the kids to the doctor" when those are things everyone does. I will concede that taking care of small kids all day can be as hard as doing a paid job outside the home, but I don't see how it is HARDER to do that plus run the household, compared to someone who works outside the home and still has to run the household. [/quote]

Agree completely. This is my primary pet peeve with certain SAHMs. I had to listen to one SAHM neighbor expound upon how difficult it is to be the only person responsible for scheduling the plumber, researching camps, buying kid clothes, making doctors appointments, etc., and that she was REALLY kept busy doing these things, so she hasn't gone back to work. (Her kids are both school age.) All I could think was that she is either a complete moron or just the world's most inefficient person. I do all those things too. Myself. Yet I am not so overwhelmed with camps and plumbers that I can't hold down a full time job.  Just WOW on the lack of awareness for that woman. Who does she think handles those tasks at my house? The Scheduling Fairy? A Shopping Elf? Nope - I do. [/quote]

Well, she does take care of her kids all day and you do not. No value judgment there, I have a nanny myself and work outside the home, but you seem to be overlooking the obvious in your desire to feel superior.[/quote]

Um, did you miss the part about her kids being school age? 1st and 4th grade, actually. They go to the same school as my kids. These kids live just a bit further from school than we do. I know my kids are out the door by 7:20 and back home about 3:10. If by "taking care of the kids all day" you mean taking care of them from 3:10 pm until her spouse returns home, yeah, that's a crushing workload. I have NO idea how she finds time to call the plumber. [/quote]

Maybe she spends her time volunteering at the school or elsewhere.[/quote]

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