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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a conversation with a single male co worker and asked him about dating a 40+ Woman with a child.  He said that most guys will consider attractiveness first, then personality, then kids.  He didn't think the "single mom" thing would be an issue...at least not for him.  He is 34 and I am 43.  [/quote]

as a single dad, dating single moms just seems to fit with my life style and my desire to have a new family (not that single women w/o kids can't be part of it).  [b]but the first step, and I think it applies to almost every guy,[/b] is that there has to be physical attraction.  the other stuff is important, but it comes afterwards - just how we are programmed.

and FWIW, to me there is nothing hotter than a 36+ single mom who is attractive and in shape.  when you have that chemistry and mutual attraction it's like being on a honeymoon all over again ;)[/quote]

EVERY human is programmed this way.  It's not just men.  Even the biggest stud in DC is going to meet women who are interested in him because they don't find him physically attractive.[/quote]

For us women, physical attractiveness is the number one thing too at least it is for me.  Of course not being psycho and having a brain are important too.  :wink:   But without that initial spark, it's a friendship, nothing more.

Luckily, both men and women are attracted to all different physical types.  I'm tall, blonde and thin and fit the western ideal pretty closely.  But, back when I was single, I had men I was interested in ditch me for short, fat, older women. [b] Obviously, that's what floated the guy's boat[/b].  It's good that we all don't for for the same type or very few of us would manage to pair off.   :)  
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Yup.  I like curvy, Italian and Jewish women with wavy hair (glasses are also a +).  A supermodel could walk by and it would do nothing for me.[/quote]

[b]I'd be perfect for you[/b]![/quote]

:) [/quote]

Yeah, you and just about every other yenta on this board.[/quote]

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