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[quote=Anonymous]I have done both (and DH supported both) so don't have much of an opinion for me, but as to what men think, I once worked in a stressful, mostly guy environment. The men made comments to me every so often about how lucky my DH was because I worked and talked to me about how they wished their wives would work, but they couldn't tell their wives. I once heard one guy crying when he thought nobody else was there. It made a big impression. I think being a sole earner can be really stressful and it's hard for some men to admit that. I don't think this is true of all SAH families or even most, and I have known happy and unhappy families of all types, just that my experience is that some men may really struggle even if they don't explicitly talk about it. I've also noticed some men can be really nasty and judgmental about daycare when they've never stepped foot in one or know the first thing about childcare. They sound ignorant but I assume that's coming from a place of stress.[/quote]
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