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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand that a lot of your reading her as a QB is very nuanced, and you're in the best position to judge if she's being catty.

But, is there any possible (even if improbable) innocent explanation for this?  Did she throw a July 4 party last year? Could their decision to host have nothing to do with you or your mutual friend group? Can you see her invite list--is it only a perfect Venn digram with your mutual friend group, or are they inviting other people unconnected to that group?

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The QB had already RSVPed to OP’s party at the exact same time and acknowledged that she was fully aware she did so. [/quote]

Yes but that doesn't necessarily mean that she decided to host an entire party simply because she'd been invited to OPs. I've plenty of times RSVP'd to something, and then things shift in my family landscape and I develop a conflict or even affirmatively make conflicting plans for reasons entirely unrelated to the initial invite. QB's response to OP's reach out could also be read as awkwardness.[/quote]

Then you don’t understand RSVPs and that you are rude.  Illness or death is the only reason that you should be backing out of a yes RSVP.[/quote]

Something shifted in her family landscape, ok? Illness, death, or vibes.[/quote]

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