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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Kid.  Always the kid.[/quote]

A child is not their actions.  Never the kid.  Look at parents, teacher, school and classroom climate, and society.  All behaviors are from unmet needs and/or underdeveloped social and emotional competencies.  [/quote]

WTF? Are you trolling? It's disturbing that you've completely removed accountability and personal responsibility from the equation.

We're not talking about dogs or rats in an experiment.  We're talking about human beings with free will and the intellectual capacity to know right from wrong.

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You're not too bright are you.  The fact of the matter is that all behaviors are rooted in unmet needs and/or underdeveloped social and emotional competencies.  If you want to ignore that fact with adult behavior, go for it.  In education, we should NOT ignore that fact and we (schools and teachers) can and should play some role in making sure children ages preschool to 18 get every opportunity available to have their needs met and to develop the competencies needed to behave appropriately and make responsible decisions.  Parents also obviously are expected to play a huge role.  Society should also play a role.   [/quote]

Thank you for proving that it's the parents.  You're right, bad behavior is being influenced by outside forces.  [/quote]

Back Atcha - reread your original post (WTF?   It's disturbing...)  I stand by my post 100% including the assumption that you're not that bright.  [/quote]

Lol, you're the one who wrote that individuals are never responsible for their own choices and actions.  [/quote]

Reading not your strong point either.  That's not what I wrote.  I wrote, "A CHILD is not their actions."  Now, I understand that you are behaving like a child but I suspect that your age renders you an actual adult.  [/quote][/quote]

You seem to have overlooked, "All behaviors are from unmet needs..."

My unmeet need is the acknowledgement that people have agency and sometimes kids act like a fool or are jerks for no legitimate reason.  It's part of being a kid but they only learn if someone, somewhere along the way, tells them when they cross a line.[/quote]

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