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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men are very lustful creatures and they are going to gravitate to women who are fulfilling their lustful needs. It’s inarguable. There are men that leave their wives and kids to go and start families with other women. You can tell yourself that situation is rare and it won’t happen to you until it happens to you. Browse through Chump Lady and the thousands of women who were cheated on and left. It’s really heartbreaking.

I would not assume your DH is not like all these other men who left their wife after many years. If there is anything you can do to help your sex life improve then you owe it to your husband to at least try and improve it. [/quote]

But this doesn’t happen. Statistically this isn’t happening. People are divorcing, dating and possibly marrying other people, but for men in their mid 50s to date 20 years younger for a woman, it’s less than 1% of men this is happening to. You look this up -the census collects this type of information about. About 65 percent of heterosexual couples in America are within three years of each other. Around 80% are within 7 years of and over 90% are within 12 years. Like I said about one percent or are with someone 20 years or more apart.

And these tend to be men like Brad Pitt who are genetically and financially in the top .1 percent, these are not your average 55-year-old divorced dad suddenly starting families with 35-year-olds.

I’m sorry, but the scenario you paint isn’t really happening. People do have affairs, they do get divorced. Sexual compatibility is important and people should be motivated to work on it. But a lot of mid 50s men are going to just divorce, start over with a 30-year-old and have two more kids just as their putting two others through college. Frankly I’m in this age group and it sounds like a nightmare not a fantasy. [/quote]

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