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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand this thread. I’m in my late 40s and weigh the same as in my 20s and have near zero drive for years. I regularly have sex with my husband because I want him to be attached and committed to me. It’s really a very easy way to keep the peace.

Obviously this approach may be hard for victims of sex abuse, but for everyone else I highly recommend it. [b]Maybe as I age my mind will change, who know[/b]s. [/quote]

Come talk to us in 10 years. [/quote]

The thing is, I wouldn’t even say 10 years. There is an ocean between 48 and 52 for some women. It’s sort of like saying “I got pregnant so easily at 35 and then at 39 we are having trouble what is going on?” Things just changed really rapidly for women at different stages in your life. The difference between 48 and 52 can be night and day.

Not necessarily for everyone, but for some women, this is true.

The issue is sex drive is not the only thing that changes. [b]As estrogen recedes there are structural changes in the brain and women often become less willing to keep the peace, less willing to be the repairer of relationships, in all aspects of their lives. It’s more complicated than just sex drive. [/b]

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This times a million! 
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