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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When 2 different people in our social circle were known to be engaging in affairs I immediately cut ties with them. It sucked to lose the friendships but I couldn’t look at them the same way anymore. [b]One was even bragging about how she bagged someone else’s husband after a year’s campaign, like it was some great prize.[/b][/quote]

What if instead she had been contrite and apologetic and said she didn't know what had possessed her to do that?

You sound like the people who cut their Trumper relatives off. You cut them off because they're awful people, not solely because they voted for Trump, although some people seem to have a really hard time understanding that distinction. Sounds like you cut these friends off because they were obnoxious, not solely because they cheated. [/quote]
I will cut people off solely for cheating. It’s a non-negotiable red line for me. I’ve seen the horrible fallout of infidelity first-hand in my parents generation and I don’t need to tolerate that. [/quote]

Ha, ok. Be sure your friends know that so they don't accidentally slip up and tell you about it. [/quote]
That’s fine, plenty of people on this planet if I lose a friend or 2.[/quote]

Whoosh

The point was that you do have friends who are cheating or have cheated but they never told you about it. You act like you can discern who is a cheater and who is not and I promise you cannot. [/quote]

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