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[quote=Anonymous]"Woman here who has little desire after FT work, kids, stress and hormonal issues. My dh grumbles and if he cheated I wouldn’t want to know about it. Marriage is a long haul. I expect there will be times I have more desire and dh has less. Actually now he has ED issues at times. Would I divorce him over that? No way. Marriage is a long term partnership. People posting on here to divorce over this are trashy."

I don't get it. Is reading comprehension really this bad among DC adults?! Nobody is talking about ebbs and flows in desire. We're talking about how you'd feel if your DH told you today that he has zero intention of ever being physically intimate with you again. Not just no more PIV. Nothing. He refuses to interact with you in a sexual manner and he says he's repulsed by the thought of having sex with you. He refuses to get a Rx for Viagra to treat his ED. He refuses to get his doc to check him out to see why he has low libido. Oh, and meanwhile he's buying lube and sex toys and lots of porn so that he can jerk off by himself. But he refuses to share anything sexual with you. THAT is what we're talking about. Believe it or not, there are LOTS of people, many writing in this thread, who think that it is your job to just accept it because it's his body/his choice. To hell with how it impacts on you as an individual and your marriage. Some of us feel that his behavior is breaking his marriage vows. Others don't. [/quote]

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