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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand why everyone is attacking OP. 
OP may be a problematic mother but if someone finds their parent disagreeble to the extent that the OP's daughter does, then that person usually aggressively plans for an independent life early on.[b]
A degree in English from a middling artsy-fartsy school does not signal intention towards financial independence.[/b]
I think all OP can do now is offer tuition for a professional certificate ready and nothing else for this ingrate child until effort is demonstrated.[/quote]

OP here. Thank you for acknowledging this! If she really hates us so much and feels like we've wronged her as parents, it's her job to major in something practical (like my DS did, even though he's very appreciative, close to us parents, and rolls his eyes at all of DD's ranting) and get off of our payroll.

Instead, she's pathetically STEALING (yes, hacking into my credit card or Amazon account without asking me beforehand is STEALING) from us. Because surprise surprise, a BA in English from Oberlin doesn't lead to financial independence.... [/quote]

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