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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - can he just be freaking out about a test that revealed an old infection ? Many people may not realize they have it. It’s a stressful time for both of you

He could be freaking out just as much as you do [/quote]

He sent this last night:

“I did not cheat on you, I never have.  I checked when I got home again because I didn't have the test results in front of me when I was telling you.

The last two tests that I have showing a positive test were in April 2022 which makes sense because I requested an STD panel after my divorce.  And the most recent one was in January 2025.    Even my 2022 results, My doctor said that I was "exposed" to an STD but there was no further follow-up because I had no symptoms and there was no back and forth on it.  And even this wasn't verbal, this is me interpreting the the labs after the fact.

Then I was tested when I was in DC with you last year, I just did a general annual checkup. I did not request a herpes test.   I have been going to the same doctor for 10 years in this HSV-2 panel was only on two of my screens.  Again my doctor did not say anything to me about the results.   I look more into my own health results as an as an entirety once I found out you were pregnant.”

He got divorced about 4 years ago…
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So he cheated in his first marriage.  There you have it.

Ex-Wife demanded STD test. But I’m not convinced he didn’t cheat and just got results from a more recent test—worried since you are pregnant.

Why are you pregnant with a divorced guy who you aren’t even married to? Was this an accidental pregnancy ? An affair baby ?[/quote]

+1 prob cheated with first wife- hence the sti panel and divorce.

Why are you with this guy? Does he have other kids?[/quote]

She was the one who stepped out. I’ve run into her a few times actually, and her family up until about a year ago kept saying how much they missed him.

He has no kids. I’ve known him for over 10 years.[/quote]

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