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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I know, and already adjusted my screening to that. Also many women on OLD who look like 60s to me claim they are 40s. Maybe that’s why men think women look so awful after turning 40.

But returning to my point, all these unattractive men were banking their much younger ex GFs. I just don’t feel sorry for them when they complain at being “used” by these younger ladies. You chose it yourself, dude- take some responsibility and be realistic about your looks. Don’t lie on profile.[/quote]

Preach, sister, and spit the truth.

I am a divorced man in my mid-50s, and your reply has many important points regarding dating at my age.

First, there are a HUGE number of very attractive women in their 50s (and in their 60s, 40s, etc.) on OLD. Men should not let their reach exceed their grasp.

And by that I mean men should adjust their targets to what they can reasonably achieve. Whenever I hear another man complain about the "lack of attractive women", I know what he is really saying is "I cannot land the women I believe I should be landing." The dating market dictates what we can achieve. Work with what you've got, and improve what you can.

Next, I always pay for dates. From start to finish. I consider a date an invitation to an event that I am hosting. If I ever found myself hosting a woman who seems intent on spending my money simply to do so (and I have not seen any hint of this yet), I would move on, knowing she was not right for me. By extension, I already had much younger women in my life whom I supported 100%. They were my daughters.

Outside of them, I would never enjoy supporting someone in return for any type of attention.[/quote]

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