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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you tried flipping your own perspective here? It sounds like they are done dealing with your drama, so they go NC with you when you start up again. That's what I get from your post anyway.[/quote] OP here. No, they try to contact me, and if I say "I miss you too, I think people who love each other should be able to resolve conflicts so can we talk?", they would shut down with "ugh, why do you hate us so much, bye", then after a while, they would reach out again as if past 2 years didn't exist, with a cheerful "heyyyy, how are you doing?", as if any answer other than "I doing good" is acceptable. [/quote] They are clearly not going to give you the relationship on your terms. You can love the parents you have while setting your own boundaries, or have no relationship. That’s your choice. You can’t force or manipulate people to change. [/quote]
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