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[quote=Anonymous]Emotionally your parents are stunted. They don’t have the capacity to regulate through difficult emotions. They never learned and now there is no way they can after decades of avoiding and dismissing their own and everyone else’s emotions… It’s not emotionally healthy to grow up in a house where people do harmful things and have no capacity for self reflection or repair. You need to parent yourself through. Your parents were not able to do it and they will never be able to do it. There is never going to be repair and they will never be able to admit wrongdoing. You deserved parents that could give that to you. You also can’t control their reactions. They will frame the estrangement in whatever way is emotionally safe and easy for them and since they have no capacity for introspection it will be that they don’t know. This is great advice ^^^^[/quote]
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