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[quote=Anonymous]You need to tell him lovingly that you need him to make up his mind and that you will respect whatever decision he makes. Tell him also (again) that you want to get married and have a big family, hopefully with him but that if he is unsure, you will unfortunately have to move on. And then do it. Give him a month and immediately start looking for a place. You are SO young and you definitely have time for five kids but every day you spend with someone who is not “sure” after three years is a day wasted. A year and a half MAX is plenty for someone to know. I’ve been on both sides—unsure for seven years and sure after just one year. Please do not waste any more of your life on this. I wasted 7.5 years, and while I ultimately did meet a wonderful man whom I married (at 34), and with whom I have two darling kiddos, I do wish we had three and there was just no time for that. [/quote]
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