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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do not give up the money. What did you have to get notarized? Is it setting up,something that he has access to?  [/quote]

OP here. I had to get a letter notarized authorizing the bank to cut the check. No exact timeline on when it will arrive.

Once it arrives in the mail, it'll be deposited wherever I want. So now I have to get a separate account set up just for me to put it into.[/quote]

Do that now. Get a safe deposit box too. NOT IN ANY BANK YOU HAVE EVER USED WITH DH. 
 Use your driver's license and maybe another ID to set it up. Do you have a passport?
Get a new email address first. Gmail is wonderful imo. Set up paperless notifications for the new bank. 
A glitch will be if DH grabs check out of the mail. Can it be a wire transfer to your new bank? 
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OP here. No valid passport anymore. Need to get a new one and ones for my kids.
You probably can't get ones for kids without him dunno. 
You definitely can get yours hopefully your passport hasn't been expired too long.

Unless he has moved them, I know where their birth certificates are and social security cards.
Take photos of them front and back.

He just left the house so I'll go confirm.

Didn't think about a new bank - is that just to avoid him calling to say, "oops, wrong account, can you move it to this other one?"[/quote]

Yes plus using customer influence and contacts to get balances etc. 
Think about getting a Mailboxes Etc box for your money check and passport to go, along with bank stuff. [/quote]

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