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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are your kids?  [/quote]

OP here. All young. From 8.5 years old and under.[/quote]

So you have two school aged kids and the baby, parents who live nearby and will help you, no job, and debt that you need to pay off.  
I don’t know, OP.  I don’t know if you need a divorce, but you do need to get your own stuff together.  There shouldn’t be piles of laundry on your bed.  You should be able to make a meal plan with simple dinners every night so you and your husband aren’t fighting about it.  If you need a break, then ask your parents to watch your kids for a bit.

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OP here. I'm doing the best I can with three kids (possibly 4 if you include the husband).

My oldest spends some time at home for schooling because of medical reasons, so is not away 5 days a week/8 hours a day.

My middle is not school age yet and obviously baby is at home full-time.

I'm exhausted most days and sometimes end up dozing off on the sofa (on the rare occasion I am able to sit for more than 10 minutes).

I know this sounds like a pity party and I'm not intending for it to be. Just trying to provide further insight. I don't know why the other person who helped to create these children should get a pass?

He gets upset with me over the messes in the house and says I just need to address it all, while conveniently leaving out that he should help me address it.

But it's okay, because last night he was up until nearly 5 AM in the basement tinkering with his hobbies.

I went downstairs to feed and change the baby at 4:30 AM and he didn't even notice. Then my middle woke up and climbed into bed with me and stirred the baby, all with him still downstairs.

I had to keep messaging him to go to bed, and eventually he did.. maybe I shouldn't have.. sometimes I let him go just to see if he'll notice or see how long he'll be doing something..[/quote]

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