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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My drive is higher than hers, so yes I do watch porn. But I don't let it interfere with our marriage - I will only watch porn after having sex, when I know it won't happen again for a few days. The scenario I want to avoid at all costs is where she initiates but I have to decline because I just took care of myself. In 20 years together this has never happened.[/quote]

I don’t buy this mismatched libido excuse as the reason you watch porn.  It seems pretty flimsy from an outside perspective.   If your drive is so high, why do you have to use porn to take care of yourself?

I understand taking care of yourself when you are turned on and your wife isn’t interested, but what you are saying is that you are using porn to get yourself turned on specifically at times you think your wife won’t be interested (not that you ask her).  This isn’t about your high drive.  This is about the dopamine release you get from watching porn. [/quote]

You sound really clueless. Something tells me you are perfectly fine turning your husband down for prolonged periods of time but God forbid he get a release somewhere else.[/quote]

The post isn’t about getting a release on your own. I don’t think many people have a problem with that.  The post is about watching porn.  
People can take care of themselves without porn.  And if you can’t, then maybe your libido isn’t actually that high.  
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