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[quote=Anonymous]OP, before this escalates or your DH gets suspicious of your suspicions, this is time to quietly start copying documents and looking at whatever you can on DH’s laptop and phone. When I was in a similar position I was able to pull a lot of travel records and financial info before he realized he was going to get caught and started to change passwords. I wish I’d had a few more weeks to be able to see bank statements and some other things, but that will come out during the discovery process in our divorce proceedings. However, he had a head start and it appears that he hid a lot of cash transactions for shady stuff.

If you can glance through his email, you should. Mine had an old account that he had supposedly stopped using. I was pulling old photos off our formerly shared laptop and realize that his old email account was still synced and downloading to an ancient version of Outlook when I accidentally clicked the “email” link instead of saving a photo and outlook opened. That’s where everything that wasn’t a cash transaction or a verbal interaction was going.

Get extra print cartridges and print, don’t download. And ask a friend to hold on to everything for you until you need it, because one day you will. You can start putting away small amounts of cash at a time prior to a filing or separation, and you should open your own bank account if you don’t have one in just your name. Make sure you have enough money in there for 3-4 attorney consults and a retainer. Aim for $15,000, and build it up slowly. It’s legal to do this before any formal separation or filing, but impossible to do after.[/quote]

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