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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Kacie is racist. [/quote]

Not necessarily. I think more she was hoping he was a "hot Asian" like he suggested. He's a nice enough looking guy, but definitely not hot.[/quote]

He’s no Henry Golding or Harry Shum, that’s for sure! [/quote]

You know that's totally what she pictured in her head when he said "hot for an Asian."[/quote]

yup[/quote]
 
[b]Would you be comfortable with someone who says, “you are attractive for someone who is black?”[/b]

Doesn’t that suggest most black people are not attractive?

I have never heard, “he is hot for a Caucasian.” People leave it at, “that guy is hot”

Anything else is racist. [/quote]

Of course not—but Kacie didn’t say that. Patrick was the one who said he had been told that before (which was his way of sharing with Kacie that he has been told he is good looking…and he also said he had been referred to as a “hot Asian guy”)—and we know that this gave Kacie reason to think he is hot.
She knew he was Asian when she said yes. So I don’t think this supports the “she’s racist” claim.
She just expected him to be a level of hot that she thinks matches HER level of hot…and when she did t feel that, she was like “nope can’t do it” and then knew that she would look like a total superficial betch in the scenario (which of course she does because duh! The whole first half of the show is based on connecting via emotions instead of looks and she did her best not to react with disappointment and tried to disguise it as “I’m nervous” at the reveal in order to protect his feelings and her brand because she’s not dumb and knows that is a terrible “look” to reject someone you already profess to like based solely on their appearance.
But the truth is that our attraction to potential mate does involve physical attraction, pheromones, and other factors in the physical realm beyond personality and temperament match-up.

There really was no good way for her to break this news to him without hurting his feelings, but she definitely made it more difficult on him by not ripping off the bandaid. She tried the “it’s not you—it’s me” approach but she really just needed to say “I really want my brain and body to connect this whole experience but I am just not feeling a physical attraction and I don’t want to put us through the awkward expectations and frustrations that an intimate getaway would put on us. So I think we just need to reconnect as friends, if that’s something you would like to pursue”
Then at least he would know that she’s not into him romantically and likely will never be.
But she has to live with the fact that she chased him in the pods and basically pod-se*ed him to get him to be with her. So icky.
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