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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand what OP should have communicated to her husband here.

If I had a pot of stock on the stove, I might tell DH before I run out that I have something on the stove, I might not, depending on how long the errand takes.  He probably would have been in the kitchen with me at some point and I would have told him about it.

But I would never expect that an adult man would just throw out a pot of food on the stove without asking what I'm doing.  That behavior makes no sense, unless her DH either A. hates the soup she is making and is malicious enough to throw it out instead of telling her not to make it, B. is a psychopath trying to upset her and make her feel crazy.

There has to be more to this story.[/quote]

Maybe he thought she was boiling the bones for a dog or something. I am not defending him because I think his behavior is atrocious but I it's possible he was trying to help as opposed to trying to be a jerk. I agree if he tossed it knowing OP had been working on it for hours that's almost even worse than how he handled the subsequent exchange. My guess was he thought he was being helpful and then OP was upset with him and then he became an ahole. Again, not defending him, just wondering why he threw it out and I don't think it was to be a jerk, although I could be wrong. [/quote]

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