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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do agree with some of the conclusions here. I have both boys and girls, so you won't catch me bashing either. My daughter would love to be "asked out" in the old-fashioned way. Dinner, coffee, whatever. She's sick of "talking to" guys. My son is definitely a bit afraid to ask out a girl and either be shot down or shamed. He has friends who are gay and bisexual, but he admits to being confused about whether it's OK to pursue a girl who has said she's bi. [/quote] I don’t really understand sort of extreme reactions like this. My two sons attended DCPS and while they shrugged at some of the social engineering, neither felt oppressed or overwhelmed by the messaging. Maybe in the scheme of things DCPS isn’t that crazy. Neither has ever had an issue reading social cues and asking women out…sometimes a rejection happens but I guess they ask out normal people because there is no public shaming. [/quote] I don't think he'd get shamed, either, but HE thinks he would! [/quote] I totally agree. The guys (thanks to social media in my opinion) think they are going to be mocked and shamed if they make a misstep. Social media has destroyed dating relationships.[/quote] Social media, and more specifically influencers and podcasters are feeding your children crap information. [/quote]
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