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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP - husband here - I've been married a very long time and I've never asked my wife about her sexual history. Once, she did say she was a virgin until she was 21 or 22 and we started dating when she was 25. What happened between 22 and 25 is not for me to know. How many guys? I have no idea. Types of sex? Clueless. But, given her late start I simply surmised that she had a pretty normal sex life though I'm not sure I know what normal is. I'm just thankful that after 30 years and 3000 times having sex (just a rough estimate!) she can still bring it on with energy and imagination.

On the other hand we did talk a lot about finances and those discussions were very helpful for us getting on the same page. [/quote]

OK but how would you feel now if she suddenly volunteered that she'd slept with hundreds of guys before you. [b]If you're even remotely normal you would feel very bad[/b], and think she lied to you (by omission) - and you'd be right. [/quote]
Uh no. How does that have anything to do with you? God these insecure f***wads need to just leave women alone. [/quote]

I'm trying to help you understand men, sweetie. You know, so you can have that "empathy" thing that women are so excited about?

You don't get to tell men how they should feel about things. What I'm telling you is, no matter how much you dislike it, men [i]are [/i]going to have feelings about a woman's sexual history.

"How does that have anything to do with you?" - do you expect me to believe that you think a man's behavior before he met you has "nothing to do with you"? I don't believe it for a minute. You - like all women - are eager to delve into a man's past sexual, financial, employment, and criminal history. You're not even wrong to do that! His past does affect you! But men have the right to know about a woman's past history, too. Because her past will affect him.[/quote]

In the absence of body language, if you want someone to have empathy for how you feel, you have to try to name your emotions.  [/quote]

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