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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your DH moved out. You were separated. You thought you had the upper hand, esp re: your child, but he is moving forward legally. It is what it is. You were not blindsided. Reach out to your network and focus on establishing your career in new city. What is your field? How recently have you been working? It is scary and a big change but focus on what you can control. Talk to a few lawyer and kind of surrender to the process. All the good things about child are still true. It sounds like you may be able to stay in same house or school district? [/quote] I never thought I had the upper hand. I was making it easy for him to spend time in the house and with our child. I thought I was giving him space to recover from a mental breakdown and regroup. Obviously I was naive and I am having regrets, but I can only go forward. The scolding and Monday morning quarterbacking is probably satisfying for PPs but is not helpful for me. Thank you. [/quote]
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