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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Play stupid games win stupid prizes.

If OP enjoys wasting marital funds dodging service to prolong her marriage to a man she is claiming is unwell and scary ….have at it. It’s just dumb. [/quote]

She’s not wasting marital funds. She’s showing him he doesn’t get what he wants in this process just because. I am very pro mediation and settlement but based on how she describes her DH she needs to make a very strong showing of power to him so he knows she will not be steamrolled. [/quote]

You think hiding in one’s home to avoid an inescapable reality is a  show of power?

I heartily disagree. [/quote]

She certainly should not cancel her vacation so she can be served. Also I wouldn’t answer the door. I’m petty that way lol. Yes it is a show of power that he doesn’t get what he wants exactly when he wants it. [/quote]

She should live her life. If she wants to go on her planned vacation, she absolutely should do that. However, hiding and refusing to open the door is actually really stressful. It sounds fun to play games and not open the door but it's very uncomfortable when trying to ignore someone banging loudly at your door, wondering if any car you see is a process server, peeking to see if it's ok to run out to the store. She's going to get served eventually. That's making it harder on herself, unless she has some specific strategy for not wanting to get served in that state.[/quote]

Just so everyone is clear: Op and I have no plans to hide or anything. That sounds really stressful and not anything I want to an already insane situation. [/quote]

Ignore the crazies online. Get a good lawyer. I found a divorce support group on Meet Up, I understand some churches have them too. You will get through this, OP.

Have you posted here before? I recall a thread about a spouse going to live in a rental property.[/quote]

Unfortunately similar situation. I think I saw that thread at some point this spring. This also happened to my friend who lives on the west coast in June.

It is insanity. How can this happen to more than one person?[/quote]

More than 50% of marriages end in divorce and the people who move out have to live somewhere? Lucky to have $$$ resources, many post-divorce do not. [/quote]

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