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[quote=Anonymous]You are getting divorced. He is clear. He moved out and is filing. None of this makes you a victim, it happens, being served is part of it. You have no control over him and will have little control over 50% of your child’s life. Focus on what you can control, getting a job and building a support network. Practice radical acceptance and model resilience for your child. You should have done legal consults long ago in an unstable marriage. Make those calls soon. That you are so enmeshed will have to change. The court may order all communication to go through a monitored app. There, attempts to portray his routine actions negatively will blow up in your face. I’m a divorced mom and you need to be smart about how you come across in family court. You don’t want to build a documented case of alienation for him, so change your thinking and framing. He has $$$ to fight in court so you really need to be careful with the martyr vs monster script. [/quote]
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