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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The minute you decided to separate you should have gotten a free attorney consult. Get your finances and paperwork in order. Set yourself up to protect your kid. As far as your kid being home next week, be a parent, be an adult and protect them from your breakdowns and “fainting”. Is it possible you separated as a manipulation tactic and your DH called your bluff? Why did you move and buy a house if the relationship was so fragile? You were not blindsided Op but want to play the victim instead of taking care your DC in ways that protect them from the fall out. [/quote]

To be clear, we weren’t separated legally or otherwise, but rather giving each other space. I shouldn’t have used the word separation in my initial post- I’m in my phone and can’t scroll back to see how I worded it but I probably made it confusing because I have a lot going on.

He was staying at our other house and coming and going regularly to the extent that he was leaving his dirty clothes in our shared hamper.[/quote]

OP, kindly, snap out of it.

He was living separately and leaving his dirty drawers for you to wash. Your marriage is over. You will be divorced. You were not blindsided. You do have pet care options.

Playing the victim here is not going to be healthy for your kid. Stop focusing on ex and get yourself together. Get trip back on and line up lawyer consults when you are back. [/quote]

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