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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women are expected to work like they don’t have kids and raise kids like they don’t work. Now we’re expected to maintain friendships as if we don’t have kids? Hard pass. Moms don’t need that kind of pressure, and if you can’t understand kids are part of the picture for a few years, no need to continue the friendship. [/quote]

Everyone knows this. OP got a pity invite because her friends didn’t want to drop her, but they don’t expect her to show up with the toddler to their group lunch. They politely ask just to keep her in the loop and her job is to politely decline and eventually everyone will move on.[/quote]

If friendship is equivalent to putting on airs and feigning your version of politeness, this just seems sad.

[b]For all of you who don’t want your friends to bring their kids, have you considered just making your invite clear of that intention[/b] rather than completely dropping your friend when they bring their kid???? [/quote]
An invitation is usually pretty clear. "Hey, do you want to grab lunch with me on friday?" How do you interpret this invitation to include your toddler child? [/quote]

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