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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]2-4 times a week, 40, 2 young kids.

2 is when one or both isn’t sleeping through the night or a fever/virus is going through the house.

When the kids are away, we revert to 2-3 times a day, but after a few days of that go back to once a day.

But w managing kids and work, I’m too tired for sex everyday.

Early on after our first kid, we realized I need to be calm/relaxed to want sex, and husband uses sex to calm himself/relax. So he started taking over parenting after dinner so I’d have an hour or so to unwind, and boom, I was suddenly much more into sex after kids fell asleep. We don’t do this every night, but if it’s busy and we haven’t had sex in a few days, he’ll usually ask if I want a kid break, and I’ll do yoga, shower, etc. Really helps bc some nights I’m so touched out w two toddlers.[/quote]

Your DH sounds like a very smart and empathetic person. [/quote]

Husband here. So a husband has to just give his wife an hour break from parenting 2-3 times a week and that makes him wonderful? Take over parenting because he wants sex? And this is wonderful? Shouldn’t he be doing that anyway? 
I bend over backwards to make my wife comfortable including parenting (which is my job) and all she does is complain.

And no I don’t expect my wife to be turned on when I grope her in bed after ignoring her and being on my phone all day [/quote]
Well, one thing I see in your post that I don't see in pps is the sheer amount of contempt dripping from your words. So I'd wager that pps husband doesnt resent and hold such contempt for her, it's easier for her to feel sexy and wanted by someone who loves and respects her. [/quote]

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