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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]2-4 times a week, 40, 2 young kids.

2 is when one or both isn’t sleeping through the night or a fever/virus is going through the house.

When the kids are away, we revert to 2-3 times a day, but after a few days of that go back to once a day.

But w managing kids and work, I’m too tired for sex everyday.

Early on after our first kid, we realized I need to be calm/relaxed to want sex, and husband uses sex to calm himself/relax. So he started taking over parenting after dinner so I’d have an hour or so to unwind, and boom, I was suddenly much more into sex after kids fell asleep. We don’t do this every night, but if it’s busy and we haven’t had sex in a few days, he’ll usually ask if I want a kid break, and I’ll do yoga, shower, etc. Really helps bc some nights I’m so touched out w two toddlers.[/quote]

Your DH sounds like a very smart and empathetic person. [/quote]

Husband here. So a husband has to just give his wife an hour break from parenting 2-3 times a week and that makes him wonderful? Take over parenting because he wants sex? And this is wonderful? Shouldn’t he be doing that anyway? 
I bend over backwards to make my wife comfortable including parenting (which is my job) and all she does is complain.

And no I don’t expect my wife to be turned on when I grope her in bed after ignoring her and being on my phone all day [/quote]

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