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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a widow with a 6 year old daughter. My current partner would like to get married. I love him and think he’s wonderful. Something that gives me pause is that as a child one of my aunts married a pedophile who ended up abusing her kids. I don’t want to introduce anything like that to my kid.

For those of you who remarried with kids, how did you determine your new partner wasn’t an abuser?[/quote]

If you don't know this person well enough to not be sure he isn't a.child abuser then why are you even anywhere close to talking marriage.

If you have a shred of doubt he might be an abuser why are you in a relationship with him at all.

What the actual[/quote]

All this. How are you spreading your legs for someone who you think might want to spread your daughters’?[/quote]

You are an idiot. You never know anyone, ever. You think any mother went along with a new man in the house thinking they would ever abuse their children? What a stupid comment you made! [/quote]

I said what I said. I would never sleep with anyone I thought could potentially abuse a child. Apparently OP is doing so. So who’s the idiot here?[/quote]

You have to be a virgin then, because by your standard you can never ever know.[/quote]

Nope. Most men aren’t molesters. A lot of [b]women have terrible pickers, though[/b]. [/quote]
So it's...it's a woman's fault if her partner molests her child? It is the molester's fault.[/quote]

In the broadest sense, yes, it is her fault. She invited this person into their lives. Most men don’t molest, yet somehow she blew past the normal men and chose someone who hurts her child. She’s probably either deeply damaged herself, or desperate for male companionship, for any number of reasons. Or both. [/quote]

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