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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/strangulation-is-the-highest-predictor-of-murder

Strangulation in any context is the highest predictor of murder.[/quote]

Let's take a step back here.  There is strangulation in the context of a fight and there is choking during sex.  Those are two completely different things.

I think the choking epidemic during sex has spiraled out of control.  I think the simple solution here is to take choking off the table completely.  He took it too far, and he lost his "privilege".  [/quote]

Choking is something you do to yourself, as in I got a peach pit stuck in my throat and someone performed the Heimlich so I didn’t die that day

When someone puts their hands around your throat, even if because you have little self esteem and a lack of boundaries, so you initially gave them permission, it’s still called strangling.   [/quote]

Exactly.  Anyone on here defending the DH's right to choke his wife is a psycho.

Ok, call it consensual strangling.  [/quote]

Except it stopped being consensual when she said stop, and you are missing the point anytime a man puts his hands around your throat (strangling) it’s a huge red flag, it’s the number one prediction that abuse will eventually escalate to murder. As in the man with his hands around your throat is going to kill you one day, because he lacks brakes.

And when I say that I mean there are men who abuse who know when to stop. They aren’t great guys, and should be in jail, but more than likely they won’t kill you, because they have brakes.

Then there are the ones who will shoot you, and your kids, while sparing the dog and they are the ones who like to strangle.

When she said no he didn’t stop, she has a man with bad brakes who wants to choke her for fun… yeah no thanks.

No woman should ever put herself in that situation willingly, because it’s not that hard for a man to kill a woman with his bare hands. It frighteningly easy actually. Despite what your jujitsu instructor or the latest action movie with a female lead tells you.

There are other ways to seek pleasure in life. Be wary of the man whose idea of fun involves fantasizing about killing you [/quote][/quote]

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