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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks everyone. We spoke again this morning and I said there will be no more choking again period in any context. He was apologetic and said he has no problem with no longer doing it.

I’m taking some time to myself to think all of this over.[/quote]

[b]Yeah you kinda overreacted[/b] most likely It's understandable, but it was simply poor communication and poor boundary setting.

Sounds like a nothing burger mostly and that you both need to brush up on safety protocols when diving into certain BDSM activities like that again. [/quote]
Don’t gaslight OP. Her husband was choking her and didn’t stop when she told him to. There was no overreaction. [/quote]

You are gaslighting in the other direction.

Catty women on here trying to ruin a relationship seems to be the norm. Misery loves company eh?[/quote]
You’re cool; you’re not like the other girls! Lol.

OP never wanted to be choked. She went along with it to please her husband. He choked her hard enough that it “terrified” her. Her husband didn’t stop when she said stop. Afterwards, she told him that wasn’t okay. This morning she and her husband agreed that there will be no more choking. What, exactly, was her overreaction?[/quote]

Did I miss an update where OP and her DH agreed no more choking? I only saw that he apologized and didn’t hear her say no.[/quote]

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