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Good - I didn't think so.  So my response wasn't really directed at you.

For Pete's sake OP, if  you are willing to do things with her that she enjoys, all I am saying is make some effort.  Hire a babysitter and make some plans  I feel like a broken record but really, go read 12:02 again.  They were so right.  She wants to know that you are still interested in her in many ways beyond sex.  Pregnancy, childbirth and becoming a mother throws so many of us for a loop.  You are hormonal, sleep-deprived, and your whole sense of yourself - physically and otherwise - is completely rocked.  Tell her that you miss her and that you want to spend time together.  You can't expect that planning one date will mean she's raring to go but if you make an honest, genuine effort to bridge the gap and see things from her point of view, you will begin to rebuild the closeness necessary for wanting sex.  Trust me - I could be your wife.  I actually kind of feel like I'm rehashing old arguments with my DH.  [/quote]

OP here.  How long a period were you "off" sex?  I've been living this for 6 years now.  Sex for DW has not been on the high priority list.[/quote]

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